The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About Hardcover – December 24, 2024

This a totally great book with so much practical recommendations! And it is very much in time for me personally. Thanks a lot for real examples, family examples - it means a lot! Actually life is getting simpler :)Mel - is great person and great professional. Thank you so much for everything you do for us!

All the things I wish I had understood earlier in life! It is written very well. It’s like talking to a friend. It’s simple to understand. No science jargon that’s over my head. I have bought a few for friends and family too. Thank you, Mel for writing this book.

I appreciate this book. Seeing words on paper gives you a different presepective. Even if you don't understand or don't like the topic, I would still read it. I also watch the videos. It is an easy read and great topics to use with your community to chat about. Hard to find the book, but order it anyway. Giving it 4 stars so I wait for the next version. The delivary date changed afew times but I was in no rush. Thanks to Mel and her team. Have fun all.

I love this book so much! This book focuses on what I call the new liberation model versus the old model that was conditioned and programed into us that we currently find ourselves currently mirrored in with components of power, control, corruption, stress, fear, elitist, immaturity, righteousness, polarization, tribalism, narcissism, stubborn, rigid and/or chaos, negativity bias, over-thinking, complaining, know-it-all, judgmental, critical, egotistical (ego), selfish/group selfishness, contradictory, superiority, hypocritical, comparison, competitiveness, fighting & arguing, fragmented society, entitlement, perfectionism, identifying/over-identifying with your beliefs, ideological, misery, victim mentality, we are right and your group is wrong/we are good and your group is bad, drama triangle, drama addiction, neuroticism, codependency, terrible at relationships (especially with people who think or believe differently than you and with people who can think outside of the current box/boxes), moral superiority, increased mental health issues, increased medical health issues, lots of news addiction, social media addiction, political addiction, political righteousness and political radicalness too.Thank you to those (like Mel Robbins) that are doing deeper mental health therapy work on themselves to be better human beings, transform themselves, and to be better version of themselves. Mel is a great example of a genuine, vulnerable, real, whole and authentic role model and a real leader in our society!Thank you to those humans, researchers and mental health/medical professionals/other professionals advocating for the newer integration model, newer liberation model, and self actualizing model Separation, siloed, & polarization group models never work long term, are very immature and go against the laws of nature.The other books that are like this are: "Liberated Love", "Unhealthy Helping", "Beyond Anxiety" and "Dissolving the Ego", "The Way of Integrity", "On Fear", "Living Untethered", "Facing Codependence" and "No Bad Parts".Remember, the younger generation is watching and witnessing all of this toxic & dysfunctional mess. Hopefully, the younger generation will learn from this and not be anything like the older generations.Please do us all a big favor and go work on yourselves with mental health therapy work. Working on yourself is the only true, real, authentic way to transform a society. Anything less, is just superficial, shallow, and surface level change. Pease look at my first paragraph and I think most humans will see many items in that first paragraph to work on in therapy.Most of the human traits in my first paragraph are terrible for your relationships and connections in general.It is interesting that the USA Western culture teaches and trains people to be in your own ego and (the ego is the highest priority) The USA mantra is "Your own ego and what your ego or what the group ego wants is all that matters" and "I have all the answers"(ego) where the Eastern culture has their highest attainment is enlightenment and self actualization and they teach their culture that: "We do not have all the answers" (humble). The Eastern mantra is "Drop your own ego, practice non attachment and work towards self actualization and enlightenment". I wonder what culture is doing better right now?You could also try a meditation class or a yoga class (or do one on youtube) to see if you can calm down your brain, body, mind, and your ego! It might also improve your relationships if you are in a calmer, flexible and more loving state of mind. Plus, you might gain more creative, innovative, and ingenuity problem solving skills (which the USA culture really seems to have rarity of these skills nowadays).It is interesting that the USA has so much moral superiority, righteousness, egotistical and a know-it-all attitude considering we have the worst education data, longevity data, medical conditions data, IQ data, mental health data, prescription drug data, human trafficking data, obesity data, suicide rate data, addiction rate data,, murder rates data, and criminal rate data than most of the 1st world countries."It Is No Measure of Health to Be Well Adjusted To a Profoundly Sick Society"-Jiddu Krishnamurti

I am usually not the type to write a review. However after reading this book, I am so grateful I bought it. It is an easy read and has helped me a lot as a college senior struggling to find a path in the world. This book has helped me embrace the journey and to not let others dictate my emotions or actions. I have trying to implement let them and let me in my life and have found inner peace. thank you to everyone who worked on this book and brought a vision to life for others! Can't wait for the next read!

This is the best book when you are the with questions? When you are the one that needs healing? When you are the one that needs to forgive and move on. When you are the one that feels used and a victim of malicious behaviors from your loved ones. This book will guide and instruct you to find peace, to learn to love yourself, to appreciate life and to appreciate YOUR VALUE AND YOUR WORTH. It will show you how we chose to allow ourselves to be devalued by people but it’s time to change the narrative. I highly recommend this book.